Ah, negotiating a scene between a dominatrix wife and her partner. A tradition as old as leather, and yet, as fresh as a newly-flogged ass! Getting it just right isn’t always easy, but lucky for you, here are our 8 expert tips for a successful session.
1. Get creative. Sure, a classical whipping with a flogger or cane is always nice, but why not try something new and out of the ordinary? Have your partner stand on one leg while reciting a poem in Latin, or wear a onesie and crawl around the room like a kitty!
2. Know your limits. What seems fun to one person might seem too extreme for the other. Make sure that you both understand each other’s limits, and that it’s okay if you aren’t comfortable crossing certain lines.
3. Communicate. Negotiating a scene is much more than just discussing who’s going to do what – it’s about building a connection and getting to know each other in a different way. Talk about what you’re hoping to get out of the experience, and what type of activities you’re comfortable with.
4. Talk about safety. We know it’s not the sexiest topic, but it’s important to discuss what safety measures you’ll both need to take to make sure that everything goes smoothly (and without risk of injury).
5. Establish a safe word. A safe word is like a top secret emergency code, and should be something that both of you understand will immediately bring the scene to a halt.
6. Have fun! Negotiating a scene should be viewed as a playful, naughty, and exciting opportunity to explore together. Make sure that you both keep an open mind and that you both enter into the negotiation with an attitude of fun and adventure.
7. Set boundaries. Before you start the scene, make sure that you both are clear about any boundaries or rules that may come into play.
8. Appreciate the hard work. It’s up to your partner to make sure that your scene is everything you both dreamed it would be. Be sure to thank them for their efforts in setting up the perfect scene!
Negotiating a scene between a Dominatrix wife and her partner may seem daunting, but it can be a fun and exciting experience if done with consideration and respect. Who knows, maybe you’ll even discover new and creative ways to explore kink together! Citation.
What kinds of footwear would a dominatrix typically wear?
As far as shoes go, the average dominatrix is anything but ordinary! From stilettos and platform heels to combat boots and bondage ballet flats, the most impressive doms know how to take their signature shoe collection to the next level – literally!
When it comes to heels, the higher the better, so make sure you have your tallest pair ready to go. Stilettos are the go-to choice, and the classic black looks elegant and intimidating. However, don’t be afraid to get daring with your shoe wardrobe – adding a pop of color or sparkle to your look can add an extra dose of attitude and style. The same goes for platform shoes – a classic must have for the dominatrix. Move over, 4-inch stilettos – we’re talking 6-inch platforms with a side of attitude.
When it’s time to get down and dirty, there’s nothing quite like a pair of combat boots. Whether it’s the classic lace-up style or a sexy buckled version, make sure to choose a pair that not only looks intimidating, but it also comfortable enough to keep you in control all night long. And don’t forget about the ankle boots! Nothing screams ‘dominatrix’ like a high-heeled ankle boot with a pointed toe, perfect for stomping around the dungeon.
But it’s not just about stilettos and combat boots. If you want to show off your softer side, there are plenty of luxurious options to choose from. From lace-up booties to velvet ballet flats, a dominatrix isn’t complete without a pair of bondage-inspired shoes.
So, the next time you slip into your dominatrix gear, make sure your look is complete with the perfect pair of shoes. It doesn’t matter whether you choose sky-high stilettos or a discreet pair of velvet ballet flats – the only rule is to make sure you look and feel fabulous!